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State your needs clearly to avoid future conflict.” — Susan Winter, relationship expert and bestselling author of Allowing Magnificence“If you’re interested in hookups, don’t contact people who don’t have that included in their profiles.
The likelihood of you not getting a response is about 95 percent.” — Clarissa Silva, behavioral scientist and author of the relationship blog, You’re Just A Dumbass “Your online dating profile is a great opportunity to do some of the work that dating in person would normally do if you didn’t meet online.
Far too often, we enter dating without stating our true desires. Yes, it will open your profile to more interest — but not to the type of person you want to date.
Without your end-goal clearly stated, your prospective partners will have a greater opportunity to push their agenda. Our ‘why’s — i.e., ‘I want to date and have fun,’ ‘I’m looking for a committed relationship,’ or ‘Looking to marry and start a family’ — need to be in sync with those we date.
If you’re newly sober, include the fact that living a clean lifestyle is important to you, and that you neither drink nor take drugs.
Being your partner means being in agreement with your day-to-day lifestyle.
Lots of people think they’re single because they’re living alone, but the reality is they’re separated and have been for years with no divorce paperwork in the process. Save yourself some time, energy and money.” — April Masini, aka “Ask April,” New York–based relationship expert and author“My friend began a serious relationship with a man who stated he wanted a ‘calm’ woman.
She tried in earnest to amend herself for him, but what he really wanted was a seriously committed submissive.
If you fill that space with negative language, what you’re not looking for in a partner, arrogance, or long, run-on sentences, you’ll be dateless.” — Antonia Hall, psychologist, relationship expert, and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life “I encourage a sense of humor, something that makes your reader smile and think, not just wonder if there is attraction or not.
Remember, a good match doesn’t make us feel great — we feel great because we feel great around them.