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“It wasn’t immediately apparent who identifies as what, and who they are searching for.” Miller made it clear that the group was not for younger women in search of a “sugar mama” to take care of them.
She relayed a story of a young woman who moved to New York from the Carolinas, leaving an unfulfilling relationship with a wealthy woman who used her as arm candy.
So far, she has met a younger friend whom she is mentoring, but the relationship is not romantic, which Barbara said is fine with her.
“I think it’s important for generations to be in touch with each other,” said Miller.
The most recent one in Chicago drew 400 men and women.“In the olden days when we would do these cougar parties, we always got too many women, we couldn’t find any guys who were willing to come and date older women,” says Gosse.
“They were too embarrassed to admit they were dating a woman as old as their mothers. Now, there’s actually a greater demand among the cubs for the cougars.”Actors Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore got the ball rolling with their May-December relationship, but Gosse believes it was baseball superstar Alex Rodriguez who made it even more socially acceptable, when it was reported in 2008 that he was in a relationship with Madonna that ended both their marriages. “If Alex Rodriguez, the 0 million-dollar man who can have any woman in the world he wants is dating a 50- year old woman, Madonna, there’s gotta be something to these cougars.
She plans to attend Friday’s event at Sixty-9 Bathurst Nightclub.
Rich Gosse, who bills himself as America’s foremost authority on finding a romantic partner, claims Demi Moore and Madonna have made dating older women so socially acceptable that men who were once afraid to be caught dead with older woman are now flocking to them.“There’s not enough cougars to go around,” says Gosse, who has held cougar events across North American and Australia.
“When I go out to lesbian events, there will be 500 young women, a few middle aged and a few older women, and I have no clue how to figure out who might consider going out with me,” said Miller. I realized most people who are older or younger and attracted to someone of the opposite ages were in the same position.
So I founded this club.” Miller said that the group, which started last September, currently has 73 members.
Miller said that new members are asked five or six questions about what they find attractive, whether they have previously been in relationships with people of variant ages, what their interests are, and how they hope other members see them.
“What I didn’t think about much when I started the group is that someone who is 30 years old could be a cougar to someone who is 20, but to a 50-year-old, they’re a cub,” said Miller.