Advice for dating a single mum
This time, let's go in with some sage advice from other single parents who've dated with.A friend of mine and I were recently doing what we do: comparing our lists of garbage dating trends. If you're new to it, the idea of dating a single mom may seem like a big deal. For a single mother, having a few hours to spare means she found a sitter and worked hard all day preparing to make sure she has the night off.Don't be surprised or offended if she has to leave a date early, cancel at the last minute, or if she has to cut you off in the middle of a romantic phone conversation.There is no schedule for the unexpected surprises that come along with being a parent.Expect Serious Discussions Early You may want to steer clear of any kind of talk about marriage, children or future plans too soon.However, she will likely bring up serious discussions much faster than a woman who does not have a child.Before you plan an outing that involves travel, you should always clear it with her well in advance and don't take it personally if she just can't go.Don't Expect to Meet Her Children Soon Moms are usually pretty apprehensive about bringing a new guy around their children before they know if said guy will stick around.
Once you think you've got them figured out, you get clocked in the head with their purse, and you have to look for another gal to date. She’ll only keep you around if the relationship is a good thing for both her and her kids. She’s loyal — and is fiercely protective of her little brood. She can articulate what she wants and needs from a relationship. Now that you've got some fond or not-so-fond memories of dating bouncing around in your head, I'm going to throw another element into the mix that will make the dating game a little more advanced.The gal that you're interested in dating is a single mom. But along with her fears, feelings, and needs that you have to be willing to give your all to, she might have a few kids that will need that same sort of support and love as well.